That sounds blame to talk about this topic..I just realized break up is a part of outlives. We meet, we feel in love and we break up one day for no special reason. That’s normal to say goodbye but the hurt still linger for such a long time, even for someone, it takes a lifetime to forget about that person.
When you are in love, you want to break up really fast, you run to the new one so fast too, but then you are not happy with that, you just ran away, you are just lonely and you feel weak..so weak i mean. Breaking up is not happy for both people, don’t think people say “goodbye” first is the one that happier than you. For the most part, when that person really how much you are important to them, that hurt is even more, even worse you know?
I don’t want to go around the bush anymore. Because I have been through that broken hearted time and now I feel happy with my life. So I will share with everyone who in the future need this tip or right now much needed.
So how to overcome break up moment? The answer is the more you try to forget that pain, that pain even hurt you more, so just learn to accept it. You can cry in vain, you can smoke, you can become an alcohol addict-or if you want because the more you want to live a healthy life in the breaking up moment, the more sad you will become so just find something even it’s bad to distract you from that pain.
It’s okay to follow your ex on the internet to see how he or she doing right now or even stalk Facebook or Instagram of your ex new boyfriend or girlfriend you that what you are curious about. Don’t feel bad about it.
Find a hobby to do, don’t just sit at home all the day long and look at all the pictures of you and your ex. Get out, do something meaningful to you, hang out with friends, sit at the coffee shop during the day and you can cry when you feel down at night but don’t stay at home all day. Never do that!
Try to think that life has much more beautiful things to think about, your family, your friends, your jobs and your hobbies that you love in the past because now you have time to chase your dreams.
Participate in a new group of people, it gonna an organization, a club who have the same interest with you. Have fun hang out with them, understand that there a lot of fish in the sea, so don’t worry you deserve better.
Always dress up!!! Remember girls, always dress up you know??? when you dress up, that means you love yourself enough, so other people will respect you as well. Always make yourself standout, don’t lose your confident, just dress up and get out, you will feel better than anyone else in this world. That’s the time you respect yourself so much.
Talk with your friends, your family about your problem, don’t try to handle this feeling alone 🙂 it’s okay, we are human and broken-hearted is really normal after breaking up. You can cry yourself but when you fell lonely, just pick up a call to people you trust like a friend, soulmate or even your mom and your dad. It gonna be better than no one gonna hear you and you have to overcome that feeling yourself.
That’s pretty much what I want to tell everyone from my own perspective. If you guys have any comment and want to share your own stories, feel free to leave me a comment right below. Just one more recommendation is that breaking up will be the time you realize who are important and who you need to treasure in your life. Don’t worry, that feeling not for long, it will pass when you ready for the new life and let them go. We are human and remember those time to help you become a strong person in the future.Good luck 🙂